You are the harshest judge of your own behaviour. Once you make a decision to work at areas in your life that may need some adjustment, ask the angels to help you soften your negative self-judgement with love.
Ask Archangel Zadkiel to help you to dissolve painful memories, to let go of judgement of self and others, and to enhance the spiritual gifts of forgiveness, tolerance and mercy. Visualise yourself surrounded by a warm healing violet light that cleanses and purifies negative traits and painful memories that affect your dealings with others. Allow yourself to bathe in this wonderful energy and feel refreshed and renewed.